If you weren’t lucky enough to read the first half of this series, “Head and More Head! Part One.” you should probably do that before you dig into this one.
This post is all about techniques that you should be a master of if you want to be a Certified Head Monster. All these techniques are basics but just because they are basics it doesn’t mean that every woman knows how to do them well. The main reason why I am concentrating on the basics for this post is because many of the questions I got were about how to better give oral to specific parts of the male anatomy…so, I’m giving y’all what the people told me they needed more information about.
The Basics…broken down by his male anatomy…
- The Head. You know what they say about men thinking with their smaller head and they don’t call it giving brains just for shits and giggles. The head of the penis is a super sensitive area due to it being replete with nerve endings; please take advantage of that! Don’t just be a Bobbing for Apples Betty…take your time with his head…imagine it is a scoop of your favorite ice cream cone or better yet a yummy mushroom shaped lollipop! ::cues Lil Wayne’s “Lollipop”:: Yes, the explicit version. You can start by licking all around it basically you want to take your tongue and trace the shape of it. Lick it all the way to the tip and let that tongue slide into the side-eye, most men are going to like that. Lick all the way down from the tip to the base of his dick back up making sure you get all around it on your way back to the tip. Now that you are at the tip again change it up from licking to sucking…get really close…don’t use your hands pull him into your mouth with nothing but sucking. Take some of him in suck softer, flick your tongue on it, blow on it, keep sucking him in until you get his entire head in. Keep it there and see how wild you can drive him by just using your tongue, lips and breath.
- The Shaft. You’ve worked his head now it is time to work your hands on his shaft. In part one I shared with you a great hand technique well here’s one more for you to perfect. When you are using your hands don’t be afraid to clasp his shaft tight or to get a little rough…just make sure you are keeping an eye and ear out for any visual or oral clues he gives you about how he is liking it. While you are still sucking his head take one of your hands place it at the base of his penis and make the shape of an O by touching the tip of your pinky to your thumb. It should be a nice tight O that will restrict the blood flow in his penis keeping his erection nice and hard. Keep sucking his head and start working the other hand up and down his shaft while maintaining the tight O grasp around the base of his cock. This O works like a cock ring…you want to maintain the tight grasp until he gets close to coming so you can help intensify his orgasm.
- The Scrotum…and don’t forget there are balls in there! I recommend that you be more gentle with his sack and balls than you are with his shaft or head but please don’t ignore them. Since they are sensitive I suggest licking his sack…use the tracing tongue technique I mentioned earlier. Cup his scrotum gently yet tightly with one hand while you work your mouth elsewhere. Suck on his scrotum…suck gently yet forcibly allowing you to suck into your mouth one of his balls. When you have it in there lick all around it then try taking the other one it too but if you can’t you can just switch them out. He will give you clues about what he likes…listen…respond to the clues…sucking, swirling your tongue, run your fingers along and around his scrotum and balls, get them sloppy with spit then blow softly to give him a chill, and if you have long hair bring that into the game too and tickle his balls with it. His scrotum and balls want the extra attention…they do a lot of work helping him get those erections and orgasms so why are you ignoring them?
- The Taint. OMG, yes, I said it…TAINT, TAINT, TAINT!!! What’s so forbidden about this area? It ain’t his ass! The taint is the area between a man’s scrotum and his anus. The thing about the taint is that well…some guys fear anal play and this is about as close as you can get with those men to giving them a P-Spot orgasm. While you are down in that area paying attention to his scrotum and balls run your fingers along his taint. Licking his balls? Keep going. Lick his taint too. He will enjoy it even if he is resistant at first, unless he is totally fearful of anal play; if he is he’ll let you know really quick. The best taint tip I can give you is…pressing down on this area with a finger or two can help him have a better orgasm…so, start practicing pressing that button if he allows it.
A friend bbm’d me saying, “You are giving all the tricks away. Can’t be having EVERY chick giving good head lol,” but why can’t we have all women giving good head? Am I giving too much away? I was going to include what I call Extras in this post but a few friends said they didn’t think I should share our tribe’s secrets. What are the extras? Ice, mints, bondage, blindfolds and a few more things. For now I’ll leave it here with just the basics…if you think a third post that details the extras is necessary let me know and I will go ahead and type it up for y’all.
One of my readers asked a question about giving head and I answered that if you want to read the question and response it is here.
Thanks for reading! I hope you have a great weekend filled with SexLoveJoy!
