Most men love and enjoy receiving oral sex more than anything else in the world. Getting head is right up there with their love of food and sports! Giving head to men that I am in a relationship with is something I have always enjoyed but wasn’t always good at. My education in toe curling fellatio began with Destiny but it was a few long term relationships and my marriage of 10+ years that made me comfortable and confident about giving head. Since I’ve been put on jaw rest by my doctor I thought why not share with you ladies some tricks to help you become more confident when giving head to your partner. I’ll be breaking this down in two detailed posts. This is Part One which covers top three scenarios and a few techniques. Part Two will be a surprise until tomorrow morning. Disclaimer: If you try these techniques you might find yourself on jaw rest too.
Be the woman who isn’t afraid to give her man head when he is least expecting it! That is the best advice I can offer any woman. My top three spontaneous fellatio scenarios are:
- Let him wake up with his dick in your mouth…yes, Hello, Good Morning…he’s been waiting for it. Waking him up by giving him head lets him know that you not only want him but that you woke up with him on your mind. You’ll be surprised at just how fast he will get hard for you. If you are feeling extra adventurous, I recommend that you wake him around four in the morning so that after he gets his you both can enjoy some great morning sex.
- Forget the road head take it straight to his desk! If your man works the kind of job where he has his own office with a door that locks and his desk would conceal you then I advise you to get to work under his desk. Let him go about his business calls while you give him a hummer that makes him squirm. If you are both feeling naughty then make a list of keywords and for each word he fits into his phone conversation reward him by taking it all in!
- Serve him a plate and get on your knees! I am a huge Football fan but even I sometimes get bored with watching all the games on Sunday. I once lived with a man who was more of a Football fan than me and he would not only watch all the games on Sunday but pre-game and post-game coverage on ESPN too. I found a way to get his attention off the games and back on to me. How can you do that too? Well, when the late game comes on get in the kitchen and start making him his favorite meal. You should be done right before halftime begins that’s when you walk in with a plate for him. Sit down next to him without a plate for yourself and wait for him to ask if you are going to eat or not. That’s your cue. Tell him you have a craving for something you can’t get in the kitchen then undress him, get on your knees and get to work while he finishes his meal.
Now, that you have set the scene for him it’s time for you to get comfortable with some techniques that will help you blow his mind. Let’s get this started properly by discussing the most important part of oral sex…lubrication…
- SPIT IS YOUR FRIEND! I haven’t been involved with a man that wasn’t fascinated by seeing his penis drenched in spit. If you have ever watched a porn star suck dick I’m sure you noticed that spit is an uncredited co-star. Men want you to cover them in your spit. Yes, you must become an expert at producing copious amounts of spit! Fill up your mouth with spit, stick out your tongue, lick him from the base of his shaft to head of his penis and let the spit flow. This will not only turn him on but it will give you a chance to catch a few breaths before you go back to deep throating him.
- TWO HANDS! Giving great head also means using your hands very well. One of my favorite techniques I learned from Destiny. When I saw how she made Airman Brown squirm with this one I wanted to perfect it. For this trick you have to remember that SPIT IS YOUR FRIEND…make sure you keep his dick very well lubed or you might hurt him…no man wants a dry rub. Take one of your hands, your dominant hand works best for this, grab his penis at the base and take your other hand to clasp his penis just below the head. Your going to need to get in close to spit, suck and blow at his head while you move your hands. The hands need to move in sync…top one going up while the bottom one goes down (hands moving away from one another)…top one going down while the bottom one goes up (hands moving towards one another). Make sure you keep supplying spit and keep him excited by sucking his head. Want to make it even better for him? While your hands go up and down try making one go clockwise while the other goes counterclockwise while you are making them move up and down his shaft…all while you keep him lathered in your spit. Slow it down, speed it up and switch direction of the turns to control his orgasm. This one might make him cum so make sure you have decided what you’ll do about that.
- SAVED BY A TONGUE! It is unfortunate but some women have a very strong gag reflex and cannot deep throat a dick even a medium sized one to save their life. Then there are some women who can easily take even the biggest cocks all in. It doesn’t matter which of these types of women we are…all of us from time to time don’t want our tonsils tickled. If your dude is really into fucking the back of your throat you can give him what he wants and protect yourself at the same time by using your tongue as a blocker. Have I confused you? Do this for me…take your tongue and touch the roof of your mouth with it then move it as far back as you can and breath through your nose. Doing that while you are giving head will make him think he’s hit bottom and will keep you from gagging.
- STOP THE GAGGING! So, you tried the tip above with the tongue and now you want to really give him what he wants without any tricks but you have a sensitive gag reflex…well, there is hope for you yet! Practice makes perfect and there is always time for solo practice. You can manage to take an extra five minutes while brushing your teeth three times a day can’t you? Since you are already there brushing your teeth why not practice killing that gag reflex too? First, place your toothbrush on your tongue pushing it back slowly until you start to gag. This is the perfect time start some self-dialogue…you aren’t choking, stop the gagging, breath, breath…keep the toothbrush there as you talk yourself through it. Keep practicing this for a minute or two each time you brush your teeth taking the toothbrush further back each time. When you feel ready I suggest that you start practicing with your favorite dong/vibrator or a banana and once you master deep throating one of those it’s time to stop using the tongue to block the back of your throat from his dick penetrating it.
- LEAN BACK…SKULL FUCK! I use some wording that might make you blush or that makes you feel uncomfortable like skull fuck but hey, I’m being honest. Your man wants to skull fuck you no matter how conservative he is. You might consider yourself a lady so, you don’t want to get skull fucked but let’s face it men are AGGRESSIVE by nature. You’ll find that from time to time he will release his nature while you’re giving him head and he will start pumping in your mouth just like it’s your pussy. Is that all too much for you? I want you to be comfortable in everything that you do and to also be great so before you shy away and ban skull fucking in your home I’d like for you to try this trick: have him stand at the edge of the bed while you give him head, when you can tell he is close to cumming roll over on your back, scoot to the edge of the bed and lean your head way back causing your throat to arch. This position will help you not choke and let him penetrate you deeper. The keys to this technique are: for him to hold onto the bottom of your head for support and for you to put your hands on his hips to prevent him for going deeper than you want him to. Enjoy!
Well, that is all for now. Go be a good girl and try these scenarios and techniques! You can thank me later…
I’m all about learning so please do tell me what you know makes men go wild when you give them head or fellows be our guest let us ladies know what we should be doing…in other words COMMENT!
Part Two of Head and More Head…here!
