Too many dudes front like they’re Mr. Big Dick and they are doing themselves a disservice. They run around telling every woman who will listen that they have ten inches in them jeans, that they’re going to put the pussy in a coma and “hands down” be the best dick she ever had. Man listen. Women don’t want to hear that bullish. Don’t get me wrong, they want quality loving but the fake big dick swagger turns them off. Not to mention, just because someone has 10in doesn’t mean they’re slaying the box ‘proper’. The best way to guarantee maximum sexual benefit (if she brings up your size) for a woman is to gas her up that you ain’t really packing, AT ALL. (more…)
posts tagged ‘dating’
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The Big Dick Theory by Native Notes
August 12, 2011 by Native Notes
Filed Under: naked candor | Tagged: advice, big, dating, dick, expectations, guest posts, nativenotes, theories
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The Mind of a Man – The Princess and the Whore by WisdomIsMisery
March 10, 2011 by WisdomIsMisery
I wrote a post on my site called the Good Girl vs. Bad Girl conundrum about the difficulty some men face, self-included, when differentiating between good girls and bad girls. We claim we want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets but when one woman embodies both of these qualities? Deuces. Fellas, what up wit that?
To make matters worse, men tend to pursue the lady and the freak separately, often looking for two women to play these respective roles instead of one. This flawed logic results in men who cheat or are unsatisfied with their so-called relationships, neither of which being an ideal outcome. (more…)
Filed Under: naked candor | Tagged: commitment, dating, freak, good girl, guest posts, how men think, love, promiscuity, relationships, sex, sexual desires, sexuality, whore, wisdomismisery
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Yes Being a Good Guy Means You Have to Wait for Sex by Max
February 17, 2011 by Max
A woman I know has a foolproof plan for getting rid of unwanted suitors: she f*cks them. When she goes on a first date, the instant at which she realizes she never wants to see this guy again is immediately followed by the instant in which she decides she’s dropping panties immediately. She has a bit of a reputation now, but what she doesn’t have is pests blowing up her phone or stalking her.
The reason my friend’s plan works so well is that almost every man will get bored with the woman who readily gives up sex. It’s not always instantaneous, but sooner than later his eye will be caught by someone else, and when that someone else makes him work for the pums, he’ll forget all about the p*ssy he got and focus on the p*ssy he’s not getting. Ain’t no p*ssy like new p*ssy, isn’t that how the saying goes? (more…)
Filed Under: naked candor | Tagged: commitment, dating, guest posts, love, max, relationships, sex, sexual desires
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The Kissing Game by WisdomIsMisery
February 14, 2011 by WisdomIsMisery
People Don’t Kiss No More All They Do Is Fuck
This might or might not be news to you but there are women out there who place their pussy below their mouths and not just anatomically speaking. Now, I will readily admit that I have had sex with women who didn’t want to kiss because kissing was considered “too personal.” I discussed this with a few other women and they thought this made perfect sense.
This does not make sense, but because I’m a man and I like sex, I pretty much roll with whatever rules and regulations the woman has and then I opine, mule and meander over it post-orgasm. Then in some cases, like this case for example, I write about it. (more…)
Filed Under: naked candor | Tagged: dating, guest posts, kissing, oral sex, romance, sex, wisdomismisery
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you don’t have to wait until valentine’s to be great at love!
February 10, 2011 by Lidia-Anain
It is almost Valentine’s Day! I’m so not excited! ::sighs::
I might not love the idea of Valentine’s but I won’t be a Sour Sally by writing a negative post about how I think it is a silly holiday that is a great economical boost for the flower, greeting card and chocolate industries. No, I just won’t do that and I won’t give you five tips for this or that to make your Valentine’s more romantic, sensual or exotic. Nope, won’t do that either. Instead I’ll give you one quick tip that might help you insure that the man or woman that will be your Valentine this year will be your Valentine again next year. Yes, this post is for those of you that have been in a relationship and want to keep it that way. (more…)
Filed Under: love & relationships | Tagged: dating, love, marriage, relationships, romance, tips
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Putting Your Sexy Forward by Tygerlily
January 27, 2011 by Tygerlily
If you are single, and you are 27 years of age or older, you must, I repeat, YOU MUST put your sexy forward at all times when you are interested in somebody. Gone are the days when you could afford to be ONLY girl-next-door-cutesy where you could just bat your eyes, and the boy would get the hint. He’s not gonna send you a note asking “Do you like me? Check _______yes ________no _______maybe.” (more…)
Filed Under: naked candor | Tagged: dating, getting what you want, guest posts, love, relationships, romance, sexy, tygerlily
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he likes new pussy. she likes new dick. so what?
January 24, 2011 by Lidia-Anain
Until the end of time arrives some men will continue to chase new pussy until they don’t want to get into new pussy anymore. Their egos become temporarily bloated because a new she gave into him. Their penises thank them each and every time they deliver new satin walls to play in. Plainly said those men enjoy the chase and triumph in the conquest. We know this because most men are open about what fuels their promiscuity yet the reasons given for why women are promiscuous are hidden and/or clouded in misjudgment.
(more…)Filed Under: sex & sexuality | Tagged: commitment, dating, infidelity, love, monogamy, open relationships, promiscuity, relationships, sex, sexual desires, sexuality, unfaithful
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don’t choose him but DO mount him!
December 15, 2010 by Lidia-Anain
These days I hear a lot of talk about how women should be the ones making the first move with men…
If a woman is interested in a man she shouldn’t be afraid to approach him.
Women who go for what they want GET what they want!
A man sometimes won’t make the first move because he doesn’t know if she’d be interested in him or not but he won’t have a problem with the woman pursuing him.
Filed Under: love & relationships, sex & sexuality | Tagged: dating, relationships, sex, sexuality
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dear men, shave your pubes, stay in shape and learn to cook!
October 13, 2010 by Lidia-Anain
Dear Men,
I’m writing to you from the heart and on behalf of the many women who think like me. Many of y’all need to stop the slacking you’ve been doing with your grooming, exercising and cooking. If you aren’t willing to match the amount of effort we women put into looking good and nurturing y’all with good food then frankly you don’t deserve that kind of woman in your life!
(more…)Filed Under: love & relationships | Tagged: dating, exercise, manscaping, marriage, relationships, sex
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turn a hoe into a housewife. today!
September 29, 2010 by Lidia-Anain
“You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife!”
That’s what they say yet every day a hoe some place is getting wifed, taking your place on his arm while you stay mad, talking mess. Let’s explore why you got passed up for that hoe in the first place… (more…)
Filed Under: love & relationships | Tagged: dating, promiscuity, relationships, sexuality
