posts tagged ‘monogamy’

  1. With great power, comes great responsibility by Dorothy F. Shaw

    March 17, 2011 by Dorothy F. Shaw

    I’m pretty sure you’re all aware of how sex can be used as a weapon, yes? Let me see if I can broaden your perception of what that means, or at the very least, explain to you what I think it means.

    There are many different opinions in the world in regards to the subject of sex. In my opinion, sex is a God given gift that we all have. Birds do it, bees do it, yada, yada. You’ve all heard the song. Most creatures on this planet copulate. Most, not all. (Sorry to those asexuals out there.) But humans? Humans are, by far, the best and most creative at the game of sex. (more…)

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  2. laughter – the world’s most powerful aphrodisiac

    January 31, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    There is no defense or offense that will work when he or she can ALWAYS make you laugh.

    I’m smiling but I’m NOT laughing!

    Is the only defense answer I can muster in those moments when my best friend of the last thirteen years makes me laugh even when I don’t want to…even when I know he is laughing at me and not with me. Laughing at me? Yes. That’s when you know that it is love when your ego retracts and it allows you to let that guard down. All the way down and you can let go and laugh at yourself. He makes me laugh at myself. (more…)

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  3. he likes new pussy. she likes new dick. so what?

    January 24, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    Until the end of time arrives some men will continue to chase new pussy until they don’t want to get into new pussy anymore. Their egos become temporarily bloated because a new she gave into him. Their penises thank them each and every time they deliver new satin walls to play in. Plainly said those men enjoy the chase and triumph in the conquest. We know this because most men are open about what fuels their promiscuity yet the reasons given for why women are promiscuous are hidden and/or clouded in misjudgment.
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  4. what do you do when the good sex you are getting isn’t enough

    January 13, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    Sex is just one of many aspects of a long-term relationship yet sex is one of the keys that keeps two people united. A strong sexual bond between two people that love one another helps get them both through all sorts of rough patches. A weak sexual bond between two people in love though creates voids that need filling.

    How does one go about filling these voids when the void isn’t caused by quality but by quantity?
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  5. monogamy is NOT for me!

    October 27, 2010 by Lidia-Anain

    If you know me well you definitely know that I beat to my own drum. I must have been around 11 when I began to stop caring what others thought of me. I was 16 when I KNEW I was pretty much over the edge of not caring anymore and my mouth became looser with the truth. I was 19 when losing what until then was my biggest dream made me completely not give a fuck at all what the rest of the world thought of me because life is truly too short. So, what am I ranting about today? Specifically, I’m going to address open relationships but before I do I have to introduce a band to you that I’m sure you already know…in fact, you might be a band member that took a wrong turn and ended up on this heathen right here’s site. (more…)

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  6. most loyal but at times VERY unfaithful

    May 19, 2010 by Lidia-Anain

    For the last two weeks, my Twitter and Facebook friends and I have been discussing open relationships, polyamory and how being unfaithful has nothing to do with being loyal. The separate yet related discussions evolved into blog posts of all sorts on several sites.

    This discussion might be as old as the the topic of love itself but it is one that I feel I have not gotten out of my system completely, mainly because I LIVE THIS. I want to discuss being Faithful vs being Loyal.

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