posts tagged ‘sensuality’

  1. arousing actions series – movement

    January 23, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    As far back as I can remember dance has been a part of my life. Movement was one of my first languages. As a young girl I spent most of my free time alone dancing in my room, with or without music my soul expressed the emotions deep in me through movement. It was when I watched a dance recital at my school that I realized how much I loved dance and a feverish desire to seriously study different forms of movement took over me. I followed that fever well into my twenties taking ballet, modern dance and lyrical dance classes; movement, no matter the form it came in, has always felt as natural to me as breathing.

    Movement is essential to all living. Movement to me is as great a gift from the Celestial Planning Committee as language. Yes, it is a blessing that we get to be creatures that can contort, manipulate, and train our bodies to do amazing wonderful things; that those can be choreographed into a dance that tells a story arouses me! Speaking of arousing. You do know what they say about lovers that are good dancers, don’t you?!
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  2. starving for sex

    January 17, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    I make cooking a special occasion as often as I can. I put my mind, heart, body and soul into making meals for my family. I wake up early on Saturday mornings to pick the freshest organic produce at the Farmer’s Market. I make almost daily trips to my local butcher to make sure the meats I cook are the best cuts available. I plan big lavish meals days in advance, making sure that I have all the ingredients I need. Then on the day of that meal, I allow enough time in my day to enjoy even the most mundane prep work. I am known for cooking in stilettos as if I were out on the town even when I’m just cooking up a quick lunch.

    Cooking is a sensual art for me that I take very seriously. I do my best cooking when I create the time and space for great meals to slowly come together step by step or when I instantly answer my palate’s desire for a particular flavor and allow it to take me on an impromptu food journey. As long as I am relaxed, prepared and in the moment I can pour my mind, heart, body and soul into making flavorful meals.

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  3. pleasure of pleasuring

    October 3, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    With the right person in the right place at the right time doing all the right things that brings me great pleasure!

    When done properly and explored fully there is nothing more sensual than giving someone else pleasure. Although getting your partner to orgasm can bring you joy there is much more to attaining pleasure from pleasuring than bringing them to the moment of climax. Sight, touch, taste, smell and hearing the gateways to sexual euphoria should all be unlocked as you make love to your partner. Pleasuring involves respecting all the senses and learning what is the key that promotes pleasure through each. Exploring the intricate details of how to get each sense to bring your partner pleasure requires you to be more alert, receptive and responsive. Being alert, receptive and responsive to your partners sexual likes, dislikes, wants, and needs helps heightens your own sexual awareness. (more…)


  4. sex sometimes changes. now fix it!

    September 28, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    This January I wrote this piece as my way of venting but also stepping back from the situation I was experiencing. I wanted to ask myself if sex was more important to me than all the other things that my relationship offered. Sex and affection in general ARE very important to me. I know that my love language clearly is affection. I want to be touched, caressed, held, kissed, fondled, fucked, made love to and I also want the words of love that come with all that. I want to be thanked for my devotion, loyalty and hard work that I do within my relationship and for what I do for our children. I want him to do all this without me having to pout or for there to go days, weeks or months before we reconnect; sensually and sexually. (more…)