posts tagged ‘sex’

  1. plugged into pleasure series – how i lost my partner orgasms

    February 16, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    Orgasms everybody enjoys having and giving them but for many women they are difficult to come by which can be frustrating to their partners that try so very hard to please them. Orgasms were something I never had any problem attaining before becoming a mother – with any man, in almost any position, at any time I knew what to do to get my orgasm.

    I was the go-to friend for tips and tricks about orgasm. The first thing that I would tell my girlfriends was that they shouldn’t blame their lovers for not having orgasms because we as women were just as responsible for our orgasms as our partners. My girlfriends would usually sigh but sit and listen to all my advice about how to achieve orgasm. My favorite line was, “If you want to orgasm you need to be in charge of the fucking!” Most of my girls were embarrassed by that line but they always came back to thank me after my tricks and tips worked for them.
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  2. highest heels on the entire time

    February 1, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    ***This is a fictional erotic story.***

    About an hour past curfew the knock at the door startled her. She didn’t know who it could be because nobody was supposed to be out of their rooms. She cautiously opened it and saw him standing there shirtless in his boxers with nothing else on but a smile. She definitely felt overdressed still wearing her uniform and combat boots.

    “I’m alone tonight.”

    She thought about what he had said as she stared into his chiseled chest letting her eyes travel down to his perfect abs further down to his boxers and what was leaning to the left in them.

    “Lemme grab my keys and clothes for tomorrow just in case.”

    He laughed and responded, “In case we oversleep while studying like last time.”

    When she walked into his room he was sitting at his desk studying with his back to her. She placed her bag on his bed; he realized she was there. Without looking back at her he asked her if she would quiz him on some terms instead of helping him with his paper.
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  3. a woman that loves fucking on making love

    January 31, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    As the first month of January 2012 comes to a close I am contemplating how I have become a fan of “making love” but still very much a “fucking” enthusiast.

    I used to think that there really was no such thing as “making love”. I was convinced that everyone only fucked but that there were times when the fucking was memorable for a delicate sort of passion that could only be described by those that had been lucky enough to connect heart, body and mind in the moment which people tended to label as “making love”. Not me though I didn’t really ever do that thing they referred to as love making. Well maybe once in a great while I would find myself caught up in doing that but not because my partner or I had set out to do so. In fact, I detested when a lover would declare that they were going to make love to me.
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  4. simply letting go into desire – part two

    January 30, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    ***This is part two of a fictional erotic story that started here. ***

    He drove further north on A1A just past where all the street parking ended on the ocean side of the road. He literally did drive us to the north most end of the beach. He turned left into the driveway of a house, pulled up to a large gate, honked, stuck his head out the car window and the gate opened. I noticed that there was a pool in the front yard as he drove along the side of the house and parked my car in the back. Feelings of excitement and fear rushed through me.

    “I’m Chris by the way. You sure you want to come in?”

    “Nikki. I’d love to come in.” I usually found myself saying too much but suddenly I was a woman of few words.

    Chris walked ahead of me but kept looking back at me and smiling. His big eyes seemed to light up the early evening. An older man opened the door as we got to it. He and Chris spoke softly. As he walked past me he barely looked at me in the face then said goodnight to us.

    “We are alone now. Let me show you my little gallery that I’m putting together.”

    We walked inside and the place was nearly empty. There wasn’t much furniture but his walls were full of art. He held his hand out in an instant I took it. We walked hand in hand down a long hallway then past double doors entered into a great room. The floors were white marble, the walls were the brightest white and all the couches, ottomans and chaise lounge chairs in the room were white. The only color in the room was the paintings on the walls. He let go of my hand then put his backpack down on an ottoman. I just stood there in the middle of the room wanting, waiting, unsure of what to look at or do next.
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  5. sex workers series – definition of sex workers

    January 25, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    Last night, I was telling my mother more about the training course that I am starting and she asked me if I was sure it was a good idea to become a professional sex worker. Her question didn’t catch me off guard because I knew she had a negative opinion about the training I’ve decided to begin. For the last six months, I’ve known that where I want to go with my career isn’t exactly the destination that many people in my family had in mind.

    Where I am going is exactly the place that my life experiences, passions and talents are leading me in an effortless manner that brings me peace and joy. Not having “everyone’s” support yet is perfectly fine because I am sure that *this* is it. I know that in the end my mother will come around but to help her get there sooner I know that I have to help educate her on what exactly sex work is. As I thought about all her questions, all the nuances of sex work, the legalities and the fact that these would become questions I’ll have to answer for years to come I decided that it was the perfect time to start a new series of posts about sex workers.
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  6. g-spot or not, i have vaginal orgasms

    January 19, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    There is no such thing as a g-spot, that’s what the scientists have concluded after sixty years of research, using surveys, imaging scans and biopsies of women but they won’t definitively say that a g-spot can’t ever be discovered by future scientists. There is no such thing as a g-spot but in some women that have vaginal orgasms they found that the tissue in the area where the g-spot was thought to be is thicker as opposed to the women that aren’t vaginally orgasmic. Knowing everything that I do about the wonderful always giving clitoris I don’t doubt that what the scientists are now surmising is correct…
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  7. starving for sex

    January 17, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    I make cooking a special occasion as often as I can. I put my mind, heart, body and soul into making meals for my family. I wake up early on Saturday mornings to pick the freshest organic produce at the Farmer’s Market. I make almost daily trips to my local butcher to make sure the meats I cook are the best cuts available. I plan big lavish meals days in advance, making sure that I have all the ingredients I need. Then on the day of that meal, I allow enough time in my day to enjoy even the most mundane prep work. I am known for cooking in stilettos as if I were out on the town even when I’m just cooking up a quick lunch.

    Cooking is a sensual art for me that I take very seriously. I do my best cooking when I create the time and space for great meals to slowly come together step by step or when I instantly answer my palate’s desire for a particular flavor and allow it to take me on an impromptu food journey. As long as I am relaxed, prepared and in the moment I can pour my mind, heart, body and soul into making flavorful meals.

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  8. honest about my sex number

    January 10, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    That question which I loathe deeply from head to toe. You know. That one. The one that truly shouldn’t be asked. The one that is for me to know. Only.

    How many sexual partners have you had?

    If you are asking me how many men have penetrated me with their penis then I know exactly how many there have been. It is a number less than my age but pretty damn close to it. I am not ashamed of the number. I won’t publish it publicly. I won’t tell my potential sex partners either. Why? Because it is such a dumb question to ask because really the question how many sexual partners have you had is a vague inquiry.

    What counts as a sexual experience?

    Should we count only the people which we’ve had sex with that included penetration? Do we count people that we’ve only had oral sex with? What if you were the one on the receiving end of the oral sex, does that count too or does only giving count? What about serious naked make out sessions that involve bumping and grinding? Do those count? Does phone sex count? What about webcam sex? What if you didn’t orgasm? What if there was no penetration but you did orgasm?
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  9. lessons learned from great sex books

    January 3, 2012 by Lidia-Anain

    Before I start consuming new books in 2012, I wanted to make sure that I shared with you three very important lessons that I learned from three great books I read in 2011.

    Lesson #1: It is never too late to get what you really really want from sex or life!

    Learned it while reading: What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl’s Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety by Jaclyn Friedman

    That subtitle perfectly describes exactly what this book is all about. Had this book been in my hands in 1994, the year in which I began to define my sexuality and what I wanted from sex, I am sure that it would not have taken me eighteen years of trial and error to get to the confident pleasurable place where I am now! (more…)

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  10. my desire for women – part two

    December 15, 2011 by Lidia-Anain

    ***This is the ending of an erotic story that started here.***

    “Remember Baby Girl you just agreed to anything I have in mind!”
    Her words scared me but filled me with even more desire for Tina. Where was this going? I looked to my left, I saw Honey on all fours getting fucked by some Latino guy that obviously spent a lot more time working on his chest and arms than his abs. I saw our boy still sitting on the edge of the bed but now he had a blond riding him. The blond was moaning and yelling over to the guy with Honey asking if he was enjoying her pussy. I looked around the bed and saw several half naked people watching; some masturbating. I was still rather new to this world so all the spectators started to make me feel uncomfortable.

    I was mentally counting the number of single dudes in the room masturbating when I heard a grunt, Tina fuss at someone and then Honey whisper. Tina was yelling at some guy that wanted to join in. Honey came over to me and started kissing my face. Tina did not like intrusive single males trying to join in during parties without consent. This night though, Tina was too focused to let some dude ruin her good time. She was about to show him who was in charge. She pulled out the double dong from underneath the pillow and said to him, “Unless you want to share some of this with her then I advise you back up!”

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