Too many dudes front like they’re Mr. Big Dick and they are doing themselves a disservice. They run around telling every woman who will listen that they have ten inches in them jeans, that they’re going to put the pussy in a coma and “hands down” be the best dick she ever had. Man listen. Women don’t want to hear that bullish. Don’t get me wrong, they want quality loving but the fake big dick swagger turns them off. Not to mention, just because someone has 10in doesn’t mean they’re slaying the box ‘proper’. The best way to guarantee maximum sexual benefit (if she brings up your size) for a woman is to gas her up that you ain’t really packing, AT ALL.
It’s a simple technique, just front like you ain’t packing all crazy. Yup, take the expectations all the way down so that the girl is into you for you. Even if you just want to beat, try this, women sex better when they think they like you for you. Make her like your mind, appreciate your wit and musical pallette. (You can do all this via text and twitter) I don’t say my dick is a schmedium but I don’t play like I’m Justin Slayer or Mr. Marcus.
Why does this work? Because women hate when dudes front like they’re Mr. Big Dick. They get irritated when we front on our size so even if we are big they already created this visual of some Godzilla dick that you can’t measure up to. So you gotta downplay the dick. Sex is 20% physical, 80% mental (maybe 60-40). Make her more interested in your mind. Then when y’all are chilling put her hand on it. Now you sooped her to be ready for 4-4.5in max but when she feels 7 it’s like you got 12.
She’s going to be so excited that you’re not Mr. little dick that she might go down and break you off with that sloppy toppy off GP. Don’t over do it though, you can’t be Mr. Pencil Dick, just downplay yourself a little. Humility goes a long way. She’ll fall in love with your dick faster, she’ll admire your modesty and her hormones will be raging because she’s now ready to be mentally and physically “touched”. (fucked sounded a little harsh)
If you really are Mr. Pencil Dick, invest in a mean tongue, I mean exquisite tongue game or holla at Bangbros, I prefer Brazzers but I’m a porn snob. Peace and good buns to you all!
~ @NativeNotes
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*Editors Note – I wrote a piece titled, “The Big Dick Syndrome,” not too long ago that you might be interested in reading here.
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